A worthless life (true life series)
So you must up the ante again. Time to piss in his favorite pair of shoes and see how he takes that.
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Eventually, the drama reaches a boiling point and the relationship will begin to painfully evaporate, scalding everyone involved. We invest so much into the drama that we come to believe that our partner is far more important to our well being than they actually are. Drama is therefore a psychological prism—a funhouse mirror—skewing the meaning that a relationship brings us.
When they were together, the person spent all of their time and energy trying to win their partner over.
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After they split, they continue spending all of their time and energy trying to win their partner over. Same shit, different day. Similarly, people who are unable to accept the loss of their relationship will badger their ex and instigate drama with them to re-live the sensation of that relationship.
But they need to create that drama again and again to keep that feeling alive. Drama, of course, can infect other relationships as well. People create drama at work to overcome their insecurity of not being valuable or appreciated. People create drama with authorities or governments when they feel an existential insecurity.
I graduated university in , a. I struggled after school. I had no money. Most of my friends moved away.
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And damn, did I miss school. School had been easy. It had been fun. And I was good at it. Then I went back. I had some friends who were a year behind me, and I spent a day visiting them, hanging out on campus and going to some parties that night. I realized something: school had actually kind of sucked. I had just forgotten about all the sucky parts and only remembered the good. Our minds have a tendency to only remember the best qualities of our past.
We delete the tedious and monotonous and just remember the highlight reel.
And the same way we tend to falsely believe that achieving one goal in the future will make us live happily ever after, we also tend to falsely believe that recapturing something in our past will make us live happily ever after. But in both cases, our mind is simply reaching for something to remove it from the present. And the present is where happiness is. You know, buried beneath all the bullshit.
So, your mind is like a chair with a bunch of spindly legs. Some legs are bigger than others. And if enough legs get knocked out, you have to replace them. Well, relationships are legs on your chair. And when you lose one leg, you need to make the other legs bigger to compensate for its loss. What that means is you have to reconnect with people who care about you.
This sounds easier than it is. This is particularly difficult for people exiting a toxic relationship.
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Everything is drama. And their breakup in one relationship will often merely be used as another form of drama in others. Good people and good relationships will offer unconditional support. Toxic friends and family members will look to adopt the drama of your loss and make it theirs as well. This just makes everything worse.
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This is the time to join a gym, to stop eating tubs of ice cream, to get outside and get reacquainted with your old friend called sunshine. Now is the time to also let yourself feel sad or angry or guilty without self-judgment.
One of the healthiest things you can do after a loss is get back to basics: do something for the simple pleasure of doing it. Get back to it. Of course, there are some people who have no idea what they would do with their time if they had no obligations or no one to impress. And this is an incredibly dire sign. No wonder their relationships went south. Stay single a while. Learn to spend time on yourself again.
Not because you feel like you have to. Life is a long series of losses. From moment to moment, year to year, we give up and leave behind former selves that we will never recover. We lose family, friends, relationships, jobs, and communities. And ultimately, we will one day lose our existence entirely.
If you think back to a hard time in your life, recognize that to get out of those hard times, you had to accept losses. You had to lose relationships and pursuits, you had to lose a lot of meaning in order to create greater, healthier meaning. All Rights Reserved. MTV Menu. Home Full Episodes Videos facebook. Latest Full Episodes. Select the video you want to watch and we'll show you a list of available TV providers. True Life has covered over topics from drug use, money issues, and sexual topics to simple social behavior like visiting the Jersey Shore.
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